Like a Virgin: Getting to Know You Firsts

Getting To Know You

Warning, you’re probably about to learn more about me than you want to know.

Do I remember my first romantic kiss? Not really. It could have happened in the sixth grade, but I’m guessing it was seventh, at least that’s when I first started going to dances and that led to quite a bit of indiscriminate kissing. I had a thing for guys with long hair. In fact, that was pretty much the only requirement I had in order for a guy to be deemed kissable.  I also recall going to parties at that time and making sure I was always standing close to a cute guy, just in case someone shut the lights off and the kissing began. And we'd be listening to this.

I do, however, clearly remember making out for the first time. It was August, between 7^th and 8^th grade. The guy and I were in the same summer art program. I can’t remember his name, but he had beautiful, long, dark hair. We ended up going on a hike in the woods. It was sunny. The leaves on the ground under the trees were warm and . . . Let’s just say it was memorable. And, though I can’t specifically recall a favorite first love song, I did blare Wild Thing by the Troggs pretty repetitively around that same time. This video of Wild Thing slightly predates my kissing, but you'll get the idea 

and probably laugh. 

Now, for the less personally revealing firsts.

Just prior to when all the kissing began, I had a fantastic English teacher, I believe it was 5^th grade. By then I’d devoured all the Wizard of Oz books, Narnia and the Grimm’s stories, basically I’d exhausted our town library’s fantasy section for kids.  This teacher introduced me to more sophisticated and newly written fantasies. The first novel was Once and a Future King by TH White. There’s a small homage to it in my manuscript Moonhill.  

Okay, let’s move on to my writing.

Before I begin a writing sessions, I fix something to drink, usually tea or coffee, iced or hot, depending on the weather. And I only have one goal in mind: to create a story that will entertain people and let them escape from the real world for a few hours. So I guess the one word I’d like to hear used to describe my writing is enjoyable. That’s it.

I wrote my first novels in high school. They were gothic and Regency romances, created for my own pleasure. Their first chapters were a mix of my daydreams and first chapters from published novels I’d read. I was totally unaware that revision existed, so they never changed or saw the light of day.

However, the first chapter of the first manuscript I wrote with publication in mind has an interesting story which says a lot about pitching agents, revision, and readership. This novel began as a short story challenge based on another writer’s avatar. So I guess that would mean the story idea started with a character. It was a fantasy with several points of view and a fairly adult first chapter involving a bonfire scene which culminated with the conception of the main character. The first query letter I ever wrote and sent out was for this story. It resulted in a full request, followed by an R&R with one condition. I needed to cut the first chapter and rewrite the story as YA. After that failed, I had a different agent request, then ask for an R&R—this time as middle grade. Honestly, the manuscript has several fatal flaws, but it should have remained adult and kept the original first chapter.

Hmmm, come to think of it, the guy in that fireside conception scene had long, dark hair. Guess I haven’t totally left my thirteen-year-old self behind. 

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